The Whole Nine Yards Ep 103 15.1.23 ParentAge with Roy Stannard on Mid Sussex Radio 103.8FM

Summary

The Whole Nine Yards Episode 103

With Roy Stannard

On Mid Sussex Radio 103.8FM

Sunday 15th Jan 2023 3-5pm

www.midsussexradio.co.uk/listen

ParentAge

We’ve all been parents or known one.

It’s the most important job that we’ll ever do and the most significant product of our time on earth. Parenting means being there and meeting basic needs, protection, preparation, love and leading

Preparing children for adulthood is the overarching role of a parent. You’re not raising a child; you’re raising an adult. As Philip Larkin puts it in his well known poem ‘This Be The Verse’

They mess you up, your mum and dad.

They may not mean to, but they do.

They fill you with the faults they had

And add some extra, just for you.

But mostly, kids need to know just one thing: that you are on their side.

Hour One

A-ha – I’m In (True North 2022)

The Lightning Seeds – Life of Riley (Sense 1992)

Example – Whisky Story (Single 2015)

The Streets – Blip on a Screen (Computers And Blues 2011)

Robbie Williams – Be A Boy (Take The Crown 2012)

Muse – Follow Me (The 2nd Law 2012)

Ed Sheeran – Tides = (2021)

Travis – Mother (Where You Stand 2013)

Creed – Eyes Wide Open (Human Clay 1999)

Harry Chapin – Cat’s In The Cradle (Verities And Balderdash 1974)

Lukas Graham – 7 Years (Lukas Graham Blue Album 2015)

Cat Stevens – Father And Son (Tea For The Tillerman 1970)

Band of Horses- For Annabelle (Infinite Arms 2010)

Hour Two

Ed Harcourt – Fears of a Father (Lustre 2010)

Matt Berninger – Serpentine Prison (Serpentine Prison 2020)

The War On Drugs – Rings Around My Father’s Eyes (I Don’t Live Here Anymore 2021)

Andrew Bird – Valleys Of The Young (Are You Serious 2016)

Stereophonics – Forever (Oochya! 2022)

James Arthur – Heartbeat (Single 2022)

Jesse Ware ft Ed Sheeran – Sam (Glasshouse 2017)

Patti Smith – Mother Rose (Trampin’ 2003)

Judy Collins – My Father (Who Knows Where the Time Goes 1968)

Sarah McLachlan – Song for My Father (Shine On 2014)

Natalie Merchant – Motherland (Motherland 2001)

Alicia Keys – Speechless (Single 2010) — Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/roy-stannard/message

Transcription

Published by Roy Stannard

I'm someone who doesn't like parameters, barriers or fences. I'll try and climb over them, burrow under them or just pretend they don't exist - until they don't. Sometimes I'll write about the mind in a poetic way, or poetry with neural undertones, or I'll proselytise endlessly about my favourite new band - or one of the old ones. My Blog will give you the keys to the kingdom. A kingdom with no borders, no expectations and, therefore, no failure.. Because I am endlessly empathetic with people, their motivation, their behaviour,their problems and their quest for knowledge, I work with the pioneering Brighton-based homeless, vulnerable women and disempowered school students charity Off The Fence Trust that has tried to redress the equality deficit for over two decades. I produce, host and promote two radio shows a week: The Whole Nine Yards Sundays 3-5pm on Mid Sussex Radio 103.8FM (www.midsussexradio.co.uk/listen) - and Lost Immortals on Mid Sussex Radio 103.8FM on Sundays 5-7pm.

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